{"id":388,"date":"2009-03-23T10:30:58","date_gmt":"2009-03-23T17:30:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/?p=388"},"modified":"2009-03-23T10:30:58","modified_gmt":"2009-03-23T17:30:58","slug":"robin-at-play","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/?p=388","title":{"rendered":"Robin at Play"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nanita took these pictures of Robin while she was here&#8212;Robin at the top of the slide:<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"frame-outer  \"><span><span><span><span><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3627\/3379764998_157bf5a291.jpg?v=0\" alt=\"Robin on the slide\" \/><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>and Robin at the bottom:<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"frame-outer  \"><span><span><span><span><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3632\/3378948851_d205e5369f.jpg?v=0\"><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Remember when I wrote a while back about how we can kind of identify what sort of overarching developmental projects Robin&#8217;s working on? Currently, he seems really focused on interactive games. He initiates all sorts of games now, all the time. I took that video of him playing peek-a-boo with us a couple months ago because it was so cute and surprising: now he plays peek-a-boo every time he gets near a curtain. He plays ball with me at the park, and chasing games (&#8220;I&#8217;m gonna get you!&#8221;) delight him. There are certain ritualized gestures he uses to initiate a simplified game of Simon Says without the verbal cues: it mostly just involves him making exaggerated gestures and us imitating them, which is highly amusing to him. <\/p>\n<p>I think what he likes about all these games is a) the predictability; the idea that certain actions on his part will always prompt certain corresponding reactions from us, and b) the acknowledgment through gesture and action that a shared understanding exists between us, that something has been communicated.<\/p>\n<p>His verbal skills are developing too, but he&#8217;s still far more fluid in gesture-based communication. He knows now that I&#8217;m &#8220;mama&#8221; and Sam is &#8220;dada,&#8221; and sometimes he&#8217;ll say &#8220;mama&#8221; or &#8220;dada&#8221; when he wants our attention, but more often he&#8217;ll just tug on our clothing or climb up on top of us. If he wants to be picked up he&#8217;ll pat my lap; if he wants to go to the park, he&#8217;ll climb into his stroller or bring me his shoes. If he wants to watch a Sesame Street video he&#8217;ll bring me his Elmo doll, and if he&#8217;s hungry he&#8217;ll bring me his empty plate. I know that it&#8217;s possible to develop all sorts of specific &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.babysigns.com\/\">baby signs<\/a>;&#8221; about six months ago I was trying to formally teach him some of them, but he wasn&#8217;t ready, and now it just seems unnecessary since his own gestural vocabulary is already so expansive.<\/p>\n<p>He also will often say &#8220;yeah!&#8221; in response to a question, although I&#8217;m not <em>quite<\/em> convinced that he understands it as a real word of affirmation\/agreement, rather than just &#8220;a sound you make when somebody has addressed you with a rising inflection in their tone.&#8221; He doesn&#8217;t say &#8220;no.&#8221; If he doesn&#8217;t like something he finds it much simpler and clearer to howl loudly in protest.<\/p>\n<p>The last thing I&#8217;ve noticed about Robin&#8217;s games is that he&#8217;s even started initiating them with other children at the park; I&#8217;ve seen him playing peek-a-boo or chasing games with other kids. This is a big step from the side-by-side parallel play that used to (and often still does) characterize his time in the sandbox. Of course he&#8217;s especially fascinated by older boys and it&#8217;s a little bit heartbreaking when he&#8217;ll try to toddle into a rowdy game of tag, offering his ball to the bigger kids: then I have to intervene and save him from himself. Playing ball with Mommy obviously isn&#8217;t as cool, but it&#8217;s something he&#8217;ll have to be satisfied with until he gets bigger himself!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nanita took these pictures of Robin while she was here&#8212;Robin at the top of the slide: and Robin at the bottom: Remember when I wrote a while back about how we can kind of identify what sort of overarching developmental projects Robin&#8217;s working on? Currently, he seems really focused on interactive games. He initiates all [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[12],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/388"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=388"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/388\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":389,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/388\/revisions\/389"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=388"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=388"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=388"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}