{"id":25,"date":"2007-04-02T06:17:39","date_gmt":"2007-04-02T14:17:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/?p=25"},"modified":"2007-04-02T06:23:11","modified_gmt":"2007-04-02T14:23:11","slug":"couvade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/?p=25","title":{"rendered":"Couvade"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So Sam is not experiencing any &#8220;sympathetic&#8221; pregnancy symptoms, but I nonetheless find that whole phenomenon fascinating.  My baby book has this to say on the subject:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Studies show that as many as 50 percent of all fathers-to-be experience physical symptoms of pregnancy when their partner is pregnant.  <em>Couvade<\/em>, a French term meaning &#8216;to hatch,&#8217; is used to describe the condition in a man.  Symptoms for an expectant father may include nausea, weight gain and cravings for certain foods.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Couvade\">Wikipedia<\/a> adds that &#8220;Currently, scientists are at a loss to whether or not Couvade&#8217;s syndrome should be considered psychosomatic, as the syndrome is brought on by a psychological effect (i.e.) the pregnancy of the wife, but is often considered a form of Munchausen syndrome,&#8221; which seems very harsh, especially considering that &#8220;More recent studies have shown that the male partner cohabitating with a pregnant female will experience hormonal shifts in his prolactin, cortisol, estrogen and testoterone levels; typically starting at the end of the first trimester and continuing through several weeks post-partum.&#8221;  Some men even experience labor pains.<\/p>\n<p>My uneducated medical opinion is that <em>obviously<\/em> couvade is caused by the partner being affected by the pregnant woman&#8217;s hormones: 50 percent of fathers aren&#8217;t succumbing to Munchausen syndrome. Someone should do a study of pregnant women with female partners, as it would seem likely that another woman would be even more strongly affected by the hormonal &#8220;rub-off&#8221; or whatever it is that&#8217;s going on.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s really interesting is the various cultural patterns that have arisen to accomodate couvade.  Our culture seems incredibly dismissive of the phenomenon, blaming it on &#8220;somatized anxiety, pseudo-sibling rivalry, identification with the fetus, ambivalence about fatherhood, a statement of paternity, or parturition envy,&#8221; but apparently in other times and places it&#8217;s been more socially acceptable for an expectant father to admit to experiencing pregnancy symptoms.  Intriguingly, Wikipedia notes that &#8220;couvade is more common where sex roles are flexible and female power and status high.&#8221;  Dunno what that says about us.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, some cultures <em>ensured<\/em> that the father would endure his share of suffering.  This is The Internet, so let&#8217;s resort to poorly sourced but intriguingly colorful psuedo-anthropology.  This <a href=\"http:\/\/omniverse.blogspot.com\/2004_06_01_omniverse_archive.html#108833207167341109\">one gal who has a blog<\/a>, summarizing something she read in a magazine one time, reports:<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"frame-outer  \" style=\"float: right;\"><span><span><span><span><img decoding=\"async\"  alt=\"Huichol\" title=\"Huichol\" src=\"http:\/\/www.thinker.org\/imagebase2-200\/852931910462\/images\/8529319104620010.jpg\" \/><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span class=\"rss:item\">In French Guiana, the father feels his wife&#8217;s pain somewhat belatedly; he&#8217;s kept in bed, in seclusion, for about 6 weeks after his wife gives birth, after which time family members cut openings in his skin and rub his body with a ground pepper plant.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The <span class=\"rss:item\">Huichol <\/span>Indian tribe of Mexico had by far the best method of making sure that men shared the pain of childbirth; a woman in labor would be laying down in a hut, and her husband would sit in the rafters above her with a rope tied around his testicles&#8230; and, when the woman had a contraction, she&#8217;d pull on the rope. If you do a search for &#8216;Huichol&#8217; on the website of the Fine Arts Museums of San Francisco, you&#8217;ll find this artwork <span class=\"rss:item\">depicting the process.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Totally great!  Sam contributes that he has maybe been feeling an inclination towards <a href=\"http:\/\/www.seaworld.org\/animal-info\/info-books\/penguin\/reproduction.htm\">balancing some eggs on his toes<\/a>, but I suspect he&#8217;s just making that up to avoid the rope around the testicles.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So Sam is not experiencing any &#8220;sympathetic&#8221; pregnancy symptoms, but I nonetheless find that whole phenomenon fascinating. My baby book has this to say on the subject: Studies show that as many as 50 percent of all fathers-to-be experience physical symptoms of pregnancy when their partner is pregnant. Couvade, a French term meaning &#8216;to hatch,&#8217; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=25"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=25"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=25"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=25"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}