{"id":1905,"date":"2012-06-26T14:56:36","date_gmt":"2012-06-26T21:56:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/?p=1905"},"modified":"2012-06-26T15:02:51","modified_gmt":"2012-06-26T22:02:51","slug":"motherdaughter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/?p=1905","title":{"rendered":"Mother\/Daughter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It all started with Leonard Cohen.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hey,&#8221; Mom said. &#8220;I heard this a<em>maz<\/em>ing k.d. lang song, and I want to play it for you. The lyrics are like&#8230;la di dah, and every chord she played was hallelujah&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<em>Mom<\/em>,&#8221; I said. &#8220;You don&#8217;t mean the <em>Jeff Buckley<\/em> song, do you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Uh,&#8221; said Sam.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;K.d. lang did it at the Olympics,&#8221; said Mom.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Okay,&#8221; I said, &#8220;but everybody knows the Jeff Buckley song, I mean I can&#8217;t believe\u2014&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s a Leonard Cohen song,&#8221; said Sam.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t care,&#8221; said Mom. &#8220;The lyrics were so great. <em>And every breath she drew was hallelujah<\/em>&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Mom,&#8221; I said. &#8220;You are freaking me way the hell out here. All the songs I always assumed that everybody knew&#8230;I mean. Do you know\u2014have you heard\u2014<em>my god man, have you heard of Warren Zevon<\/em>?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Who?&#8221; said Mom.<\/p>\n<p>And that is how it began. We made a pact. We&#8217;d swap playlists, made up of &#8220;great songs that everybody should know.&#8221; It was okay if they were songs we thought the other person had already heard. They just had to be great.<\/p>\n<p>A few months went by, la-la-la, and I forgot all about the pinkie swear I&#8217;d made with my mom. Maybe I forgot about it because it involved <em>Sam<\/em> being <em>right<\/em> about <em>music<\/em>, an event that occurs with such depressing regularity that it all fades into a grey sameness.<\/p>\n<p>Until Mom came for another visit, and she had a piece of ruled legal paper, much folded, and written upon (and scratched out, and written again) with ballpoint pen.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s my playlist,&#8221; she said. &#8220;Let&#8217;s put it together now! I want to see how you do it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Mom,&#8221; I said. &#8220;I&#8217;m making dinner. I&#8217;ll just go and buy these from iTunes when I have a spare second.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><em>HAH HA HA HA HAH.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not saying it didn&#8217;t go smoothly at first. Track one, Hank Snow, &#8220;Golden Rocket.&#8221; Plug it into the iTunes search feature, ninety-nine cents, badda bing, badda boom.<\/p>\n<p>Track two, &#8220;Sweet Sunny South,&#8221; Smith Lester. (Smith Lester?) Nope. Not happening. iTunes has some versions of the song, but none by that artist\u2014in fact, given that I can&#8217;t quite make out Mom&#8217;s handwriting, I&#8217;m not sure that &#8220;Lester&#8221; is the last name at all. But there&#8217;s no likely matches either on iTunes or Amazon.<\/p>\n<p>So I put that one away and move on. (By this time, Mom&#8217;s gone back home, so she&#8217;s not available for an immediate consultation.)<\/p>\n<p>Track three, &#8220;Hard Times,&#8221; Geyser Stshhh&#8230;.&#8212;&#8230; (Mom&#8217;s handwriting is illegible.)<\/p>\n<p>At this point I start to suspect that I&#8217;m being <em>outright trolled.<\/em> I call Mom. &#8220;Hey,&#8221; I demand. &#8220;What&#8217;s this supposed to say, on track three? Geyser <em>what<\/em>?!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Geyer Street Sheiks,&#8221; she says promptly. &#8220;They&#8217;re a local band. They&#8217;re famous in St. Louis.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This is my introduction to Music Hipster Mom.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span class=\"frame-outer  \"><span><span><span><span><a title=\"hipster-mom by Jo Shannon Phillips, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/siduri\/7373859910\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm9.staticflickr.com\/8164\/7373859910_8682989c55.jpg\" alt=\"hipster-mom\" width=\"254\" height=\"245\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The Geyer Street Sheiks? Oh, you&#8217;ve probably never heard of them.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>After some time talking through the playlist, researching things, and digging through various obscure bands&#8217; obscure discographies, I&#8217;ve got a clearer picture. First, it wasn&#8217;t Smith Lester. It was the &#8220;Smith Sisters,&#8221; and the song Mom wants is from their album &#8220;Mockingbird,&#8221; never released in digital format, but available on vinyl for like five bucks.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span class=\"frame-outer  \"><span><span><span><span><a title=\"hipster-mom by Jo Shannon Phillips, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/siduri\/7373859910\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm9.staticflickr.com\/8164\/7373859910_8682989c55.jpg\" alt=\"hipster-mom\" width=\"254\" height=\"245\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I have that on vinyl.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Meanwhile: the Geyer Street Sheiks tune was never released <em>at all<\/em>. They were famous in St. Louis, yeah: but then they broke up, and apparently had some kind of acrimonious dispute over the rights, such that none of their music is currently available in any format whatsoever.<\/p>\n<p>Except. Except that&#8230;there&#8217;s some kind of sketchy eastern European pirate site&#8230;and they&#8217;ve got <em>Great Dreams<\/em> by the Geyer Street Sheiks for download, if I&#8217;m only willing to give them a credit card number, which I am <em>not<\/em>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Several hoops jumped through later (it involved buying a one-time-use PIN number from an ever-so-slightly more reputable third party site) I have the Geyer Street Sheiks&#8217; <em>Great Dreams<\/em>, and also the Smith Sisters&#8217; <em>Mockingbird<\/em>, but the former doesn&#8217;t have the track Mom wanted and the latter is still only on vinyl. (The record arrives, and I put it on our bedroom dresser. &#8220;Gaah!&#8221; says Sam. &#8220;I think those women are witches! I think they are trying to magick me from that album cover! They might already have my soul!&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"frame-outer  \"><span><span><span><span><a title=\"smithsisters by Jo Shannon Phillips, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/siduri\/7188640279\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm8.staticflickr.com\/7216\/7188640279_b89127b387.jpg\" alt=\"smithsisters\" width=\"415\" height=\"407\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>But&#8230;hold up&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Mom,&#8221; I said. &#8220;On this Geyer Street Sheiks album, I&#8217;m seeing &#8216;Sweet Sunny South.&#8217; And in iTunes, I&#8217;m seeing the Smith Sisters covered &#8216;Hard Times.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No!&#8221; said Mom. &#8220;You&#8217;re kidding! Well, that&#8217;s probably fine, then, just switch &#8217;em.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>(It wasn&#8217;t actually that easy, of course. We discussed first whether maybe it was the Red Clay Ramblers&#8217; version of &#8220;Hard Times Come Around No More&#8221; that she&#8217;d actually meant? In the end I executed editorial control, and went with the version that plucked most deeply at my subconscious. I must&#8217;ve heard the Smith Sisters track <em>a lot<\/em> as a little girl: once I finally had it playing, every single note sounded familiar.)<\/p>\n<p>OKAY. GOOD. We can move on. Track four, Gillian Welch, track five, Bob Dylan, no problemo. Track six, W.C. Handy performing his &#8220;St Louis Blues,&#8221; takes no more than a moment of searching. Track seven, &#8220;Marcia Ball &#8212; C.C. Rider.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;d <em>think<\/em> that would be easy. I&#8217;ve got a couple Marcia Ball albums on my iPod already. Not that particular track, but&#8230;you&#8217;d think&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Oh,&#8221; says Hipster Mom. &#8220;Didn&#8217;t she ever put that on any of her albums? I just remember she used to play that song when I went to see her at the Split Rail or the Broken Spoke or something like that\u2014it had a fence or some sort of a wooden part\u2014&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Mom,&#8221; I said. &#8220;This doesn&#8217;t help me find the track on iTunes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This was in Austin,&#8221; she said. &#8220;It would&#8217;ve been &#8217;72 or &#8217;73&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Okay,&#8221; I said, &#8220;THAT explains why it&#8217;s not on iTunes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span class=\"frame-outer  \"><span><span><span><span><a title=\"hipster-mom by Jo Shannon Phillips, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/siduri\/7373859910\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm9.staticflickr.com\/8164\/7373859910_8682989c55.jpg\" alt=\"hipster-mom\" width=\"254\" height=\"245\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was into Marcia Ball before she was cool.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>So, a little more digging\u2014my Google-fu is pretty strong\u2014and I&#8217;ve got it. It was the Split Rail all right, in Austin, but it wasn&#8217;t Marcia Ball: not yet. This was before her solo career. She was playing in a band called Freda and the Firedogs. They made an album, and it included a version of the song: &#8220;EZ Rider.&#8221; There are used copies of the Freda and the Firedogs album for sale on Amazon for $49.99, but you can also <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fredafiredogs.com\/order.html\">get it directly<\/a> from Bobby Earl Smith if you Paypal him fifteen bucks. When I do so, he sends me a very nice email thanking me for the order and asking how I heard about the band, and I&#8217;m kind of blown away. I tell him it was because he was track seven on Mom&#8217;s handwritten playlist of songs everybody should know.<\/p>\n<p>It was the Split Rail, confirms Bobby Earl Smith. He says it&#8217;s always nice to hear from a fan of the old band.<\/p>\n<p>Track eight, Emmylou Harris, I&#8217;ve got that one already. In fact the rest of the list is just about that easy. I&#8217;m thrown for a second by track fourteen: Jimmy Buffett? <em>Really?<\/em> I mean, I enjoy the occasional Jimmy Buffett tune myself, but I&#8217;m not under the impression that it&#8217;s anything but <em>shameful<\/em>.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span class=\"frame-outer  \"><span><span><span><span><a title=\"hipster-mom by Jo Shannon Phillips, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/siduri\/7373859910\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/farm9.staticflickr.com\/8164\/7373859910_8682989c55.jpg\" alt=\"hipster-mom\" width=\"254\" height=\"245\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is not irony. I&#8217;m absolutely sincere about Jimmy Buffett.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Okay, Hipster Mom. If you say so.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, after I&#8217;d gotten Mom&#8217;s playlist together, I had to finish my own. So here&#8217;s the final Mother\/Daughter playlist:<\/p>\n<p>MOTHER<\/p>\n<p>Hank Snow &#8212; The Golden Rocket<br \/>\nThe Geyer Street Sheiks\t&#8212; Sweet Sunny South<br \/>\nThe Smith Sisters &#8212; Hard Times<br \/>\nGillian Welch &#8212; Elvis Presley Blues<br \/>\nBob Dylan &#8212; Boots of Spanish Leather<br \/>\nW.C. Handy &#8212; St. Louis Blues<br \/>\nFreda &#038; The Firedogs &#8212; EZ Rider<br \/>\nEmmylou Harris and Willie Nelson &#8212; Gulf Coast Highway<br \/>\nMartin Simpson &#8212; Sammy&#8217;s Bar<br \/>\nJames Taylor &#8212; My Traveling Star<br \/>\nSharon Shannon and Steve Earle &#8212; The Galway Girl<br \/>\nTaj Mahal &#8212; Candy Man<br \/>\nJorge Drexler &#8212; Al Otro Lado del R\u00edo<br \/>\nJimmy Buffett &#8212; A Pirate Looks at Forty<br \/>\nAmy Rigby &#8212; Dancing with Joey Ramone<\/p>\n<p>DAUGHTER<\/p>\n<p>U2 &#8212; One<br \/>\nSin\u00e9ad O&#8217;Connor &#8212; The Emperor&#8217;s New Clothes<br \/>\nTalking Heads and John Goodman &#8212; People Like Us<br \/>\nThomas Dolby &#8212; I Love You Goodbye<br \/>\nWarren Zevon &#8212; Accidentally Like A Martyr<br \/>\nJeff Buckley &#8212; Hallelujah<br \/>\nCrash Test Dummies &#8212; Superman&#8217;s Song<br \/>\nThe Mountain Goats &#8212; Going to Georgia<br \/>\nEmmylou Harris &#8212; Going Back To Harlan<br \/>\nGuy Clark &#8212; Sis Draper<br \/>\nThe Waterboys &#8212; The Raggle Taggle Gypsy<br \/>\nLinda Ronstadt &#8212; Willing<br \/>\nScott Miller &#038; The Commonwealth &#8212; The Way<br \/>\nWarren Zevon &#8212; Mohammed&#8217;s Radio<br \/>\nBruce Springsteen &#8212; My City Of Ruins<\/p>\n<p>You can see there&#8217;s some similarities. We both put Emmylou on our playlists&#8212;she&#8217;s my favorite singer, probably not least because I grew up with her music. We both have a weakness for Irish bands and rootsy Americana. I limited myself to fifteen songs because that&#8217;s what Mom did, but I put Warren Zevon on twice, because <em>he&#8217;s Warren Zevon<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Anybody who wants a copy, leave your mailing address in the comments and I&#8217;ll burn you CDs of both mixes. Old skool, baby!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It all started with Leonard Cohen. &#8220;Hey,&#8221; Mom said. &#8220;I heard this amazing k.d. lang song, and I want to play it for you. The lyrics are like&#8230;la di dah, and every chord she played was hallelujah&#8230;&#8221; &#8220;Mom,&#8221; I said. &#8220;You don&#8217;t mean the Jeff Buckley song, do you?&#8221; &#8220;Uh,&#8221; said Sam. &#8220;K.d. lang did [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1905"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1905"}],"version-history":[{"count":43,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1905\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1984,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1905\/revisions\/1984"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/shannon.users.sonic.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}